If you haven’t thought about it yet, having a pre-divorce is the first step to take when separation is sure. Here at Hecht Schondorf, we are passionate about minimizing the impact of divorce separation on family members. Keeping the impending split in focus, plan by taking steps to ease the divorce process. More importantly, you cannot overlook this vital planning stage when kids are involved.
Create a full-proof exit plan
When you are sure within your heart that the marriage is irreconcilable, you will need to create a firm exit plan. It is draining alone to think about the entire process, but planning is crucial in making it smooth. Your plan should not be a means to rip off your spouse or take revenge for the hurt they’ve put you through. Research shows that women are the ones who suffer the financial strain more after a divorce. The following steps apply to (male/female) either if you find out your partner is filing for the divorce, or you are the one seeking it.
Hire us as your family law attorney
In every divorce stage you find yourself, you will need a skilled family law attorney. Do your research of the top law firms that can cater to your needs; they should be able to handle your case with dedication. You can be confident that Mark Schondorf and the team will give you the best results.
Organize records and keep files
In divorce, you will need to act fast to aid your attorney and transition. Take your time, and note down financial records, assets, bills, and debts to be clear on what to fight for. You will need to make your copies in fine print or a secure digital storage cloud.
Slowly separate yourself/open new accounts
It is essential to get your accounts when planning for a divorce. Something as simple as the post office box is crucial to getting tamper-proof deliveries of sensitive documents. You can get one quickly rented at the post office for a change of address. You can change your bank account, apply for credit cards, emails, and interchange legal documents with us quickly when you have successfully achieved this.
Set up an emergency divorce fund
From the moment you start nursing the idea of filing for divorce, you should create a savings plan. Your target amount could be the cost of your lifestyle for six months or a year. This way, you do not end up bitter or settling for less than you need.
Adjust all your legal documents
Suppose you place your spouse as the beneficiary to a life insurance policy or a chunk of your will. Then you will need to adjust all documents that list them as the recipient. When there are other assets involved to disinherit your partner, seek professional advice. Thankfully, our firm has knowledge spanning finance, business, and real estate.
In conclusion, talking things through with your partner is a great way to achieve a smooth divorce process. Do not leave any aspect of your life unplanned, including your kids. When making these plans, we will be with you every step of the way to ease the problematic lifestyle transition.